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I Traveled, before i come back, my husband has already married our Maid

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Nigeria woman narrates how she traveled to the UK, before she is back, her husband has already married her maid.

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“My husband says he prefers the maid who has been taking care of him and that I go away with my education. I’m so hurt, I don’t know what and where to go. I can’t stand the shame and betrayal.

“Two years ago, I got a two-year scholarship to do my masters’ degree in the UK. I and my husband agreed that I grab the opportunity.

“He even encouraged me to take on casual jobs so that we complete our house which I faithfully did.

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“My course ended in mid-August and I was so eager to return to him and our three children, but he advised me to work till December and return in time for Christmas.

“I returned home on December 22nd and I found him treating the maid as the queen of the home. The following day my neighbours and other relatives told me about the relationship the maid shares with my husband.

“I involved my mother-in-law who advised me to forgive him. She even helped me chase the maid away.

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“But to our shock, my husband resisted and said he prefers the maid who has been taking care of him and that I go away with my education.

“I’m so hurt, I don’t know what and where to go but I can’t stand the shame and betrayal. she Lamented.

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Steve D.Dee
Steve D.Dee
1 month ago

That’s the stupidity women exhibit always. You think education is more than you marriage? Well since he has already tested the maid and probably her skills in the other “room” are perfect, you may not have him back. But then, no one is greater than God. Please, pray.

Ekeleda
Ekeleda
1 month ago

The deed is done. You have a tough fight on your hands. Braze up for it. Embark on fasting and prayers to take back what belongs unto you in the relationship. Continue to pray and fast intermittently while doing every thing and making every contact to persuade him to change his mind. Allow some time, 6 months maybe, for these efforts to bear fruit. If he remains adamant still, file for a divorce and fight legally to take your own portion of whatever is between the 2 of you and secure legal instruments to commit him to playing his roles… Read more »

Chimex
Chimex
1 month ago

It’s heartless of the husband to respond in this manner. He could have rejected the idea of further education if he detests it. Why encourage her to go and then stab her in the back? Somehow I feel he already had a plan to dump her and the time of her absence provided the leeway. To the lady, I would say, move on. Definitely, it’s over except a miracle happens

Adex
Adex
1 month ago

You are not totally at fault madam, but you could have visits home during your course of the study .See, forgive him and chase the maid away, plz make him believe you can still be best woman for him.
Plz madam,admit your mistakes of your closely not watching your back while away in foreign land and don’t raise his faults ,he knew it already ,
May Almighty God bless your home and be a good woman and never let go of your functions at home.